Lending Library
Family Support Services of the Reed Funeral Home maintains an extensive Lending Library of the most current resources on LOSS AND GRIEF. In grief, it is natural to want to seek information so we can better understand what is happening in our lives or the lives of those we are supporting, following the death of a loved one. It is through knowledge and understanding that we gain a sense of control in our lives.
Please feel comfortable in requesting additional information by calling the Reed Funeral Home at (330) 477-6721, or contacting us at info@reedfuneralhome.com.
SELECTED ANNOTATED BIBLIOGRAPHY
The following selected resources listed in this bibliography are recommended for the families served by THE REED FUNERAL HOME and our community as a source of support and understanding of death and grief. A complete listing of additional resources (including publications for the caring professions) is available through our LENDING LIBRARY as part of our FAMILY SUPPORT SERVICES. You may check out your choices with our receptionist or staff members at your convenience. Please return your books to the funeral home so others may find comfort and understanding as you have.
CHILDREN AND GRIEF
WHAT'S HEAVEN? Maria Shriver
Adults and children struggle with the answer to this question - gentle and compassionate response. Read along with your child.
AARVY ARRDVARK FINDS HOPE Donna O'Toole
It isn't easy … and it takes time, but healing and growing through even the most devastating losses are possible. You'll feel that hope deep down inside you when you finish reading this wonderful story. Read Aarvy Arrdvark Finds Hope to your children, your parents, your families, your friends and read it also for you.
THE FALL OF FREDDIE THE LEAF Leo Bascaglia
Written for all children who have ever suffered a permanent loss and for grown ups who could not find a way to explain.
AM I STILL A SISTER? Alicia M. Sims
This book tells of a sister's feelings when her brother died. The book expresses the wide range of feelings, emotions, difficulties and dilemmas of the grieving process for a child.
FINDING GRANDPA EVERYWHERE John Hodge
A young child discovers memories of a grandparent - a wonderful resource for helping children understand death, grief and remembrance. A touching story that will encourage young readers to discuss their feelings of loss and grief.
THE GARDEN ANGEL Jan Czech
A young girl is grieving the death of her grandfather. She plants a garden in his memory, just like grandfather taught her. Loving text, charming illustrations - encourages young readers to relate to the feelings of the girl.
I KNOW I MADE IT HAPPEN Lynn Bennett Blackburn
"I made it happen" thoughts can be hidden for years and may be a child's response to why things happen. This is an excellent book for parents and children who are living with feelings of guilt associated with important life events, such as death, divorce, injury or illness.
ANIMAL CRACKERS Bridgett Marshall
This story could be used to help prepare children for future events as grandparents age, or to encourage conversations after the death of a grandparent.
WHERE THE BALLOONS GO Paul Coleman
The death of a grandmother. This story shares love and dreams and death and grief between a grandson and his grandmother. Corey thinks of a special way to say good bye to his grandmother.
LUCY LETTUCE Patrick Loring and Joy Johnson
Children of all ages will learn about grief and loss by the examples of what grief feels like that are demonstrated by a head of lettuce.
THE SADDEST TIME
This book includes three stories helping children cope with the death of an uncle, the death of a classmate and the death of a grandmother. Helps children understand that both sad and happy times are part of life for everyone.
LIFETIMES Bryan Mellonie and Robert Ingpen
This is a beautiful way to begin talking to young children about life cycles (life and death).
WHEN SOMEONE DIES Sharon Greenlee
This gentle book addresses the dreams a child may have about a loved one who has died.
WHEN DINOSAURS DIE Laurie and Marc Brown
A Guide to Understanding Death: through comical and colorful illustrations this book helps children dispel the mystery associated with death and addresses many of the questions children ask.
LOST AND FOUND Ellen Yeoman
Remembering A Sister: through memories, memorials and possessions of the sister who has died the surviving sister finds that she has not lost the true essence of her sibling.
LOSING UNCLE TIM Mary Kate Jordan
An insightful book, thoughtfully conceived on explaining AIDS and death to children.
TEENS AND GRIEF
WHEN DEATH WALKS IN Mark Scrivani
Mark looks at the unique way teenagers face death and provides helpful information about grief and the emotions associated with teen grief.
STRAIGHT TALK ABOUT DEATH FOR TEENAGERS Earl Grollman
In his unique direct style, Earl Grollman addresses the emotional responses of teens from the first moments following the death of someone special through the grief process and explains how teens face the future following a loss.
FACING CHANGE Donna O'Toole
The teen facing change and loss will find positive helps for dealing with the death of a loved one, divorce, abuse and many more changes. It helps the teen understand what grief is, how to identify support systems and how to find help.
HEALING YOUR GRIEVING HEART FOR TEENS Alan Wolfelt, Ph.D.
100 Practical Ideas: speaks honestly and straightforward to teens presenting numerous ideas to help and support them through their grief through encouragement in expressing their feelings.
WHEN A FRIEND DIES Marilyn Gootman
When teens are faced with death of a friend, they are often confused over their feelings and don't know what to do. This book is for teens in dealing with their grief and the healing process.
PET DEATH
WHEN A PET DIES Fred Rogers
Mr. Rogers has developed a series of "First Experience Books" that opens communication with young children. "When a Pet Dies" helps our children face death of a pet in early childhood and ultimately may influence the way they cope with many of life's situations all their lives. Encourages children to talk openly about their feelings and can be an important step toward managing their feelings.
THE TENTH GOOD THING ABOUT BARNEY Judith Viorst
A wonderful book to explain the importance of remembering and saying good bye when a pet dies.
I'LL ALWAYS LOVE YOU Hans Wilhelm
The death of a special pet is a loss that is felt very deeply. Wilhelm's sweet message is an important one for children (as well as adults) in helping us grieve the death of our pet.
MEN AND GRIEF / WOMEN AND GRIEF
FINDING YOUR WAY AFTER YOUR SPOUSE DIES Marta Felber
Support and encouragement from a widow who offers scripture, personal reflections and prayer for those whose spouse has died. She combines her counseling skills with her personal grief journey to provide hope for the journey ahead.
TAKING THE TRIP Romaine Presnell
This is a widow's journal expressing the pain as well as hope for the journey through grief following the death of a spouse.
COMPANION THOUGH THE DARKNESS Stephanie Ericson
This book is especially helpful for the younger widow. The author writes from her personal experiences following the death of her husband.
IT MUST HAVE BEEN MOONGLOW Phyllis Greene
Phyllis writes about her experiences of grief following the death of her husband. She writes of the challenges of widowhood and the importance of support from friends and family.
INTO THE CAVE Dr. Ron Petrie
Dr. Petrie talks of the differences between the way men and women grieve. Both men and women will gain insight into the grief process by reading this book.
A LOOK INTO THE MIRROR Ed Ames
A Handbook for Widowers: covers single parenting issues, finances, living alone and what to do with her things. The author writes this book as a road-map for the journey through grief, helping you feel less alone in your grief.
COWBELLS AND COURAGE Pat Page
Essentials for all men. This book is written by a widower whose wife died after almost fifty years of marriage. He talks to men about everything experiences in his journey through grief (from cooking to dating, anger and even sex).
BEING A WIDOW Lynn Caine
A compassionate, practical guide: a self-help guide for women facing the loneliness and stress of widowhood. It is a good beginning for the road to recovery.
I'M GRIEVING AS FAST AS I CAN Linda Feinberg
How young widows and widowers can cope and heal: deals with the unique issues that arise with the death of a young person.
MEN AND GRIEF Carol Staudacher
This book is the first that looks in depth at the unique patterns of male bereavement. Based on extensive interviews with male survivors.
WIDOWER … WHEN MEN ARE LEFT ALONE Scott Campbell and Phyllis R. Silverman
This book explores the grief process as men experience it. It offers different ways that have helped men come to grips with the wrenching loss of their spouse and successfully work through their grief.
DEATH OF A PARENT - ADULT CHILDREN
FINDING YOUR WAY AFTER YOUR PARENT DIES Richard B. Gilbert
This compassionate guide is for adults experiencing a deep sense of sadness after the death of a mother or father.
FATHERLOSS Neil Chethik
How sons of all ages come to terms with the death of their dads: talks about the grieving process that is unique to men and gives practical advice for sons dealing with the loss of their dads.
IN MY MOTHER'S KITCHEN Robin A. Edgar
An introduction to the healing power of reminiscence: gives significance to the value of the influence of individuals and incidents that shape our lives.
MOTHERLESS DAUGHTERS Hope Edleman
This book will help women understand the grief journey following the death of their mother, reveals how the absence of a mother's nurturing hand shapes a woman's identity. Based on interviews with women who have survived the death of their mothers.
DEATH OF A CHILD
ROSES IN DECEMBER Marilyn Willett Heavilin
Written by a bereaved parent, the author will help you find your own roses in December by helping you deal with your loss, understand your grief and companion you through the depths of sorrow.
THE BEREAVED PARENT Harriet Schiff
This book offers support and guidance on how to cope with your grief when your child has died. The author offers step-by-step suggestions from the deep understanding of being a bereaved parent.
WHEN THE BOUGH BREAKS Judith Bernstein
A sensitive and compassionate book that offers bereaved parents honesty and empathy in adapting their lives to the tragedy of the death of their child.
THE FALL OF THE SPARROW Kent L. Kappelman
This book is highly recommended. It is the story of a father's search for meaning in the sudden death of his son. The author looks directly at sudden loss, grieving and the struggle to survive that loss. He shows us that even in the lowest periods of sorrow there are healing choices, things that we can do to gain control and to value the uniqueness of the life of the lost child.
WHEN BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE Harold Kushner
When a child dies, a parent's world is shattered. Harold Kushner shares his experiences and his insight for the grieving following the death of his son at the age of 14.
INFANT DEATH
HEALING A FATHER'S GRIEF
Fathers cry too, but sometimes men find it difficult to show their feelings. This book gives fathers permission to grieve, to cry, and to feel.
MISCARRIAGE Sherokee Ilse
A Shattered Dream: Those who have suffered a miscarriage will find support in dealing with common questions and concerns, coping ideas and suggestions for caring for yourself.
EMPTY CRADLE, BROKEN HEART Deborah Davis
Surviving the death of your baby: Addresses the emotional and physical needs of bereaved parents. It offers practical advice and warm understanding for those who are coping with the tragedy of miscarriage, stillbirth or infant death.
EMPTY ARMS Sherokee Ilse
Coping with miscarriage, stillbirth and infant death: Helpful information, practical suggestions and support for parents in their grief.
HEALING TOGETHER Marcie Lister and Sandra Lovell
For couples whose baby died: Information on how men and women grieve differently and how to strengthen your relationship after the death of your baby.
WHEN A BABY DIES Sara Wheeler and Rana K. Limbo
A handbook for healing and helping: Written expressly for families who have suffered a prenatal loss or stillbirth. This practical book offers support and advice through the grief process.
THIS LITTLE WHILE Joy and Marv Johnson
This little book contains supportive information for parents experiencing the death of a stillborn baby or very young infant.
SIDS AND INFANT DEATH SURVIVAL GUIDE Joni Horchler and Robin Morris
This book includes help for planing a funeral and comforting grief information shared by other families who have experienced the death of their babies from SIDS.
GRANDPARENTS GRIEVE TWICE Mary Lou Reed
The author writes from her personal experience after the death of her grandson. She touches the universal in all grandparent's grief. Includes suggestions for memorials and personal rituals. Grandparents grieve for their personal loss, but they also grieve for their child who has lost their baby.
TRAUMATIC DEATH - BY SUICIDE OR HOMICIDE
LIVING WHEN A YOUNG FRIEND COMMITS SUICIDE Earl Grollman & Max Malikow
Or even starts talking about it: This book is written to help you understand what you are feeling and to help you heal after a friend has committed suicide. It talks about the first days after the death, the shock of hearing about your friend, the need to know why, what to do if you know someone is suicidal, returning to school after a suicide and dealing with misconceptions regarding suicide. The information is presented in a straightforward and compassionate manner and gives comfort and expert advice for helping yourself.
SUICIDE OF A CHILD Adrina Wrobleski
This book is for parents whose child has completed suicide. It details victimization, social stigma, guilt, anger, history and the process of recovery.
A MESSAGE OF HOPE Pat Overlay
This is an excellent book of hope for survivors (family and friends) of loved ones who complete the act of suicide. It takes you through the journey of a parent following the death of her son. She gives guidelines to help others for the first days, the funeral, the first year and especially the special days when grief is so painful.
MY SON, MY SON Iris Bolton
The author tells her personal story of her son's suicide. She tells the story of devastating tragedy and triumph, giving parents comfort and understanding in this compassionate book.
THE EMPTY CHAIR Beryl Glover
The journey of grief after suicide: This resource offers guidance for the emotions and the unique issues one encounters following a loved one's death by suicide.
ANDREW, YOU DIED TOO SOON Corinne Chilstrom
A family experience of grieving and living again. It is written by a Christian mother whose son died at the age of 18.
AFTER SUICIDE: A RAY OF HOPE Eleanora "Betsy" Ross
A unique grief process. Includes helps for yourself and your children as well as other survivors in coping with spiritual questions, listening techniques, special days in the grief process. Sensitive understanding of the survivor's plight and powerful positive ways of healing, offering insight into the survivor's dilemma.
THIS IS SURVIVABLE Sondra Sexton-Jones
The author writes from her personal experience of finding her husband after he completed suicide. Sondra gently tells you what to expect, what you may feel and assures you this is survivable.
JUST US and HARD WORK JOURNAL Wanda Henry Jenkins
Coping with homicidal loss and grief: Healing tools for the unique grief process following the death of a loved one who has been murdered.
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